Enhance Your Relationship By Talking About Your Sex Life With Your Partner – Not Your Friends

Posted on November 15, 2008 
Filed Under Healthy Relationships, Passion & Sexuality

If you want to enhance your relationship, you might want to consider how you talk about your sex life –and to whom you talk about it. Talking about your sex life with your partner – in an open, loving, and non-judgmental way – can dramatically improve your relationship; but talking about it with friends can often be an indicator of serious problems – or even the beginning of the end of the relationship. If you have problems with your sex life, solve them with your partner; if you don’t, then talking about you and your partner’s personal life with your friends is a good way to cause one.

Guys who are in serious, committed relationships don’t usually talk too much about their sex life other than using vague terms to express their happiness. A man who truly loves his wife will not talk about her personal life with other people in a way that might embarrass her should she ever find out about it – a wink and a smile is more than enough to convey the fact that he is in a harmonious union. While a man who complains to his friends about his sex life is a man who is about to ruin his relationship with his uncontrolled mouth – or with the affair that inevitably follows such discourse, disdain, and disrespect for his wife and relationship.

Women tend to be more guarded with their relationships – or perhaps a bit shyer about talking about them. Women are much more likely to be talking about problems if they are talking to their friends about the sex in their relationship. When you speak of problems, you create problems; the more you speak of them – and the more people you speak of them with – the bigger the problems tend to be. If you have a problem, talk to the person you have the problem with, solve it, or leave it behind. But make no mistake about it, if you have a problem in your relationship, it is never one-sided; and it is never a good idea to share problems with anyone when that means belittling, blaming, criticizing, or judging another person – especially the person you supposedly love. Solve your relationship problems with love – not gossip.

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